Sunday, September 30, 2007

Sharing Space with Thomas Friedman

From time to time, I come across something that makes me want to leap up and say, "What s/he said!"

Thomas Friedman's editorial in The New York Times has presented me with one of those times (I am SO glad that he worked out some of the kinks in his prose that were so painfully obvious in The World Is Flat)

9/11 Is Over, by Thomas Friedman (New York Times 9/30/07)

Not long ago, the satirical newspaper The Onion ran a fake news story that began like this:

“At a well-attended rally in front of his new ground zero headquarters Monday, former New York City Mayor Rudy Giuliani officially announced his plan to run for president of 9/11. ‘My fellow citizens of 9/11, today I will make you a promise,’ said Giuliani during his 18-minute announcement speech in front of a charred and torn American flag. ‘As president of 9/11, I will usher in a bold new 9/11 for all.’ If elected, Giuliani would inherit the duties of current 9/11 President George W. Bush, including making grim facial expressions, seeing the world’s conflicts in terms of good and evil, and carrying a bullhorn at all state functions.”

Like all good satire, the story made me both laugh and cry, because it reflected something so true — how much, since 9/11, we’ve become “The United States of Fighting Terrorism.” Times columnists are not allowed to endorse candidates, but there’s no rule against saying who will not get my vote: I will not vote for any candidate running on 9/11. We don’t need another president of 9/11. We need a president for 9/12. I will only vote for the 9/12 candidate.

What does that mean? This: 9/11 has made us stupid. I honor, and weep for, all those murdered on that day. But our reaction to 9/11 — mine included — has knocked America completely out of balance, and it is time to get things right again.

It is not that I thought we had new enemies that day and now I don’t. Yes, in the wake of 9/11, we need new precautions, new barriers. But we also need our old habits and sense of openness. For me, the candidate of 9/12 is the one who will not only understand who our enemies are, but who we are.

Before 9/11, the world thought America’s slogan was: “Where anything is possible for anybody.” But that is not our global brand anymore. Our government has been exporting fear, not hope: “Give me your tired, your poor and your fingerprints.”

You may think Guantánamo Bay is a prison camp in Cuba for Al Qaeda terrorists. A lot of the world thinks it’s a place we send visitors who don’t give the right answers at immigration. I will not vote for any candidate who is not committed to dismantling Guantánamo Bay and replacing it with a free field hospital for poor Cubans. Guantánamo Bay is the anti-Statue of Liberty.

Roger Dow, president of the Travel Industry Association, told me that the United States has lost millions of overseas visitors since 9/11 — even though the dollar is weak and America is on sale. “Only the U.S. is losing traveler volume among major countries, which is unheard of in today’s world,” Mr. Dow said.

Total business arrivals to the United States fell by 10 percent over the 2004-5 period alone, while the number of business visitors to Europe grew by 8 percent in that time. The travel industry’s recent Discover America Partnership study concluded that “the U.S. entry process has created a climate of fear and frustration that is turning away foreign business and leisure travelers and hurting America’s image abroad.” Those who don’t visit us, don’t know us.

I’d love to see us salvage something decent in Iraq that might help tilt the Middle East onto a more progressive pathway. That was and is necessary to improve our security. But sometimes the necessary is impossible — and we just can’t keep chasing that rainbow this way.

Look at our infrastructure. It’s not just the bridge that fell in my hometown, Minneapolis. Fly from Zurich’s ultramodern airport to La Guardia’s dump. It is like flying from the Jetsons to the Flintstones. I still can’t get uninterrupted cellphone service between my home in Bethesda and my office in D.C. But I recently bought a pocket cellphone at the Beijing airport and immediately called my wife in Bethesda — crystal clear.

I just attended the China clean car conference, where Chinese automakers were boasting that their 2008 cars will meet “Euro 4” — European Union — emissions standards. We used to be the gold standard. We aren’t anymore. Last July, Microsoft, fed up with American restrictions on importing brain talent, opened its newest software development center in Vancouver. That’s in Canada, folks. If Disney World can remain an open, welcoming place, with increased but invisible security, why can’t America?

We can’t afford to keep being this stupid! We have got to get our groove back. We need a president who will unite us around a common purpose, not a common enemy. Al Qaeda is about 9/11. We are about 9/12, we are about the Fourth of July — which is why I hope that anyone who runs on the 9/11 platform gets trounced.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Why I Like Spokane

I like Spokane because:
  1. Getting from the airport to the Hospital Zone, is effortless with mass transit. One connection - made in a nicely laid-out transportation Plaza with a very cool waterfall, sculpture - was all it required. And, it only cost $1.
  2. Madeleine's Cafe and Patisserie provided a truly delicious Feta, Tomato & Olive Quiche that I will have to recreate very, very soon.
  3. It is the home of Dr. Steven Brisbois - a truly gifted surgeon, and very kind man. After my HSG, yesterday, he told me that he looked forward to receiving a picture of my yet-to-be-conceived baby. If my husband-to-be agrees, I hope to give our child the name "Steven" or "Stephanie", in gratitude for Dr. Brisbois' skill and patience. Well, maybe as a middle name.
  4. The people there are SO nice. They make the Seattle Nice pale in comparison.
  5. It's always warmer there than it is in Tacoma. Yesterday, Tacoma was in the 50s, while Spokane reached the mid-70s.
In previous visits this summer, I also enjoyed the Riverfront Park and Spokane's proximity to Lake Coeur D'Alene.

All told, it's a town I'd actually like to visit again, though hopefully not for any more medical issues.

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Mind Makes Matter

I admit, that in the past, I have let my thoughts and attitude keep me in a funk. Inevitably, I would find myself laden by more funkiness. Even when I thought I was being "responsible" by taking inventory of the mess where I was, so often I would find myself burdened by even more crap.

This was especially true when I was diagnosed with the fibroid. I could not believe that my body would betray me so completely, that God would further complicate my mid/quarter-life crisis, that the universe would be so cruel. Self-pity, anger, confusion, defeatism were my norm for quite awhile. Followed quickly by over-compensation and drastic measures.

In the midst of all of this externalization of blame and salvation, I began to gradually direct attention to my inner life: the type of thoughts I was having; the dreams I was nurturing; as well as the dreams I was stifling. I began to really notice how I treated my body, as well as how I thought of it. I retreated deep into my self, realizing that for all of the book learning I'd accumulated, I had very little true knowledge of Me.

Through the meditative space of acupuncture, singing hymns from my soul, returning to the gym and finding sanctuary in the sauna, I began to cultivate a different mind-body connection, that I believe laid the foundation for a different mind-life connection.

To be clear. I am not yet a sage. But I think I'm "getting it."

This evening, I decided to kick back a bit and watch "The Secret." A friend of mine in Santa Cruz had recommended it to me some time back. And a co-worker mentioned it earlier this week. Then yesterday, lo and behold, it arrived as part of my latest Netflix trio.

So I watched it. And for the most part, I felt...well...validated. Not because I've managed to live "The Secret" faithfully, but because I am trying to.

At its most basic, it's an argument for positive thinking...and believing. It's not enough to think good thoughts. We have to visualize them, claim them and believe in them with our whole being. We have to live our visions as if they were our present reality, because that is the only way they will be. In "Secret Speak": We must Ask the Universe/God for what we want (on a profound level, not a mere material level), then Believe that our request was heard and is in the process of being granted. Lastly, we must Receive the feeling and experience of our answered prayer, not in the future...but now.

Rather than phrase this as a list of everything I'm no good at, I will say that I am working on my visualization strategies and my faith. The visualization I do best when I collage, crochet or garden. And so, I've resumed work on a couple of collages that I started in April 2006. I make a point of working on the baby blanket that I started for my godson (who is now almost seven), and have rededicated to the child I will someday carry, bear and raise. And the garden, I plan to spend some quality time with this weekend.

I am inspired by two statements made in the film:
  1. Your current state of affairs is not who you are, it's who you were.
  2. Good thoughts are 100 times more powerful than bad thoughts.
I'm not going to make a list of all the things that continue to be off-kilter. I recognize that they are residuals from a very trying 18 months. Rather, I am refocusing on where I want to go and who I want to be.

I have faith that God has given me enough strength to complete the "how's" that will manifest on my journey. I'm not sitting on my laurels, expecting God (The Original Mr/Ms Universe) to magically teleport me from my current state of affairs to my vision. Increasingly, I'm learning that believing in and receiving goodness are actions.

I have to DO my belief. I have to LIVE my gratitude. After all, mind makes matter.

Sunday, September 23, 2007

When Writing Retreats Become Culinary Disasters

Since I didn't have any interviews scheduled for this week, I decided to join a friend up at Birch Bay for a couple of days of writing and resting (it's amazing how exhausting job searching, dating mishaps, housekeeping and basic life management can be).

We were blessed with very little traffic (a minor miracle considering we left Auburn after 3). En route, we checked out a quilting shop in Mount Vernon (R's a major quilter) and then popped into Wedding Belles, since R's wedding is next August and I'm her M.O.H.

Since R has already found her gown, it was my turn to play dress up. And let me tell you how much fun that wasn't given:
  • Bridal designers uniformly design small
  • The samples in the store were in some pretty interesting colors
  • I'm woefully out of shape.
But we did find two designs that actually looked lovely (the two designs, in gold, made me look like QUITE the princess): one from Bella by Venus, and the other from Alfred Angelo.

And then we got peckish.

I've already bemoaned the dearth of healthy eating options along the I-90 corridor. Suffice to say, the I-5 corridor is no better. And our dinner at a Mexican eatery with overly-potent margaritas kicked off two days of Relapse Eating.

Granted, if I'd been on the ball, I could've made some nut milk and other healthy eats (I did bring the leftover paella). But I wasn't. So we had to stop by the local grocer in Birch Bay. I don't think I saw ANYTHING organic or genuinely natural in there.

Instead, we bought ready-bake Tollhouse cookies, pre-made sandwiches (because the fixin's added up to more than the pre-fabs), and muffins whose ingredient lists included multi-syllabic rejects from a toy chemistry set.

Needless to say, I paid for this relapse. My GI tract was not amused. The only redeeming detail is that I AT LEAST remembered to bring some dried fruit and almonds from home, so my snacking (when it didn't involve shoveling Tollhouse Crackies down my gullet) was fairly tolerable.

But, I am definitely getting back on track this week. So long, Tollhouse and thanks for all the guilt.

Monday, September 17, 2007

Paella...My New Best Friend

Yes, I know, this is not the long promised post on nut milks and cool recipes I've been developing with them. I'll try to get around to that in the next few days.
In the meantime, I shall gush over paella.

Now, let me say: I've never had the "traditional" paella. Something to do with tentacles and peculiar sea life I'd much rather see through a dive mask than on my plate. But a few weeks ago, I was browsing cooking videos on the New York Times site, and came across a gorgeous looking recipe for Tomato Paella. I decided that "one of these days," I'd have to give it a try since I planted WAY too many tomato plants for the 2nd year in a row.

Well today, autumn descended with a vengeance and I saw dozens of Sungold Cherry Tomatoes, Brandywine, Lemon Boy and Roma tomatoes that were ripe and ready to rot in the changing weather. Unfortunately, I didn't have some of the other ingredients that Mark Bittman's recipe called for. So... I improvised.

Karen's Variation of Tomato Paella (changes from the Bittman recipe are in blue)
3 cups stock made from Better than Bouillon (available @ Trader Joe's)
1/2 cup Sauvignon Blanc
1 1/2 pounds cored tomatoes, in wedges (I used Lemon Boy, Roma & Brandywine fresh from the garden)
Salt and Fresh Ground Black Pepper
1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil (organic, of course)
1 medium onion, minced
1 tablespoon minced garlic
1 tablespoon organic tomato paste
Large pinch of saffron threads (Trader Joe's has a decently priced bottle)
2 teaspoons turmeric
2 cups sushi rice (I live in WASHINGTON, not exactly the hotbed for Spanish rice)
Chopped parsley for garnish (and a really wonderful flavor when combined with the tomatoes)

I followed Mark Bittman's assembly instructions precisely. In terms of equipment, I used one of my well loved cast iron skillets and had to roast the dish for 18 minutes. Then I let it sit in the turned-off-oven for 10 minutes.

It's a DELICIOUS dish. I think it would work best as a side dish served promptly. But I'm going out of town tomorrow and will bring the leftovers, so that should be a real test of the recipe's utility for things like potlucks or picnics.

Sunday, September 16, 2007

21 Things That You CAN Recycle

This is, by no means, a total evasion of original posting on my part. I'm just playing catch up and fighting off a cold. Besides...this is pretty vital info and anything I can do to help spread the word, I will do.

So, without further ado, here's CoOp America's list of 21 Things That Really Are Recyclable:


1. Appliances: Goodwill accepts working appliances, www.goodwill.org, or you can contact the Steel Recycling Institute to recycle them. 800/YES-1-CAN, www.recycle-steel.org.

2. Batteries: Rechargeables and single-use: Battery Solutions, 734/467-9110, www.batteryrecycling.com.

3. Cardboard boxes: cardboard boxContact local nonprofits and women's shelters to see if they can use them. Or, offer them up at your local Freecycle.org listserv or on Craigslist.org. If your workplace collects at least 100 boxes or more each month, UsedCardboardBoxes.com accepts them for resale.

4. CDs/DVDs/Game Disks: Send scratched music or computer CDs, DVDs, and PlayStation or Nintendo video game disks to AuralTech for refinishing, and they'll work like new: 888/454-3223, www.auraltech.com.

5. Clothes: shirtsWearable clothes can go to your local Goodwill outlet or shelter. Donate wearable women's business clothing to Dress for Success, which gives them to low-income women as they search for jobs, 212/532-1922, www.dressforsuccess.org. Offer unwearable clothes and towels to local animal boarding and shelter facilities, which often use them as pet bedding. Consider holding a clothes swap at your office, school, faith congregation or community center. Swap clothes with friends and colleagues, save money on a new fall wardrobe and back-to-school clothes – then donate the rest.

6. Compact fluorescent bulbs: Take them to your local IKEA store for recycling: www.ikea.com.

7. Compostable bio-plastics: You probably won't be able to compost these in your home compost bin or pile. Find a municipal composter to take them to at www.findacomposter.com.

8. Computers and electronics: Find the most responsible recyclers, local and national, at www.ban.org/pledge/Locations.html

9. Exercise videos: Swap them with others at www.videofitness.com.

10. Eyeglasses: glassesYour local Lion's Club or eye care chain may collect these. Lenses are reground and given to people in need.

11. Foam Packing peanuts: Your local pack-and-ship store will likely accept these for reuse. Or, call the Plastic Loose Fill Producers Council to find a drop-off site: 800/828-2214. For places to drop off foam blocks for recycling, contact the Alliance of Foam Packaging Recyclers, 410/451-8340, www.epspackaging.org/info.html

12. Ink/toner cartridges: Recycleplace.com pays $1/each.

13. Miscellaneous: Get your unwanted items into the hands of people who can use them. Offer them up on your local Freecycle.org or Craigslist.org listserv, or try giving them away at Throwplace.com or giving or selling them at iReuse.com. iReuse.com will also help you find a recycler, if possible, when your items have reached the end of their useful lifecycle.

14. Oil: Find Used Motor Oil Hotlines for each state: 202/682-8000, www.recycleoil.org.

15. Phones: cell phoneDonate cell phones: Collective Good will refurbish your phone and sell it to someone in a developing country: 770/856-9021, www.collectivegood.com. Call to Protect reprograms cell phones to dial 911 and gives them to domestic violence victims: www.donateaphone.com. Recycle single-line phones: Reclamere, 814/386-2927, www.reclamere.com.

16. Sports equipment: Resell or trade it at your local Play It Again Sports outlet, 800/476-9249, www.playitagainsports.com.

17. “Technotrash”: Easily recycle all of your CDs, jewel cases, DVDs, audio and video tapes, cell phones, pagers, rechargeable and single-use batteries, PDAs, and ink/toner cartridges with GreenDisk's Technotrash program. For $30, GreenDisk will send you a cardboard box in which you can ship them up to 70 pounds of any of the above. Your fee covers the box as well as shipping and recycling fees. 800/305-GREENDISK, www.greendisk.com.

18. Tennis shoes: Nike's Reuse-a-Shoe program turns old shoes into playground and athletic flooring. www.nikereuseashoe.com. One World Running will send still-wearable shoes to athletes in need in Africa, Latin America, and Haiti. www.oneworldrunning.com.

19. Toothbrushes and razors:toothbrush Buy a recycled plastic toothbrush or razor from Recycline, and the company will take it back to be recycled again into plastic lumber. Recycline products are made from used Stonyfield Farms' yogurt cups. 888/354-7296, www.recycline.com.

20. Tyvek envelopes: Quantities less than 25: Send to Shirley Cimburke, Tyvek Recycling Specialist, 5401 Jefferson Davis Hwy., Spot 197, Room 231, Richmond, VA 23234. Quantities larger than 25, call 866/33-TYVEK.

21. Stuff you just can't recycle: When practical, send such items back to the manufacturer and tell them they need to manufacture products that close the waste loop responsibly.